From the book, "Glimpse after Glimpse."
A compilation of daily reflections on living and dying by a Tibetan Llama. Here is the daily reflection for 28 June.
“Reflect on this: The realization of impermanence is paradoxically the only thing we can hold on to, perhaps our only lasting possession. It is like the sky, or the earth. No matter how much everything around us may change or collapse, they endure.
Say we go through a shattering emotional crisis .our whole life seems to be disintegrating...our husband or wife suddenly leaves without warning. The earth is still there; the sky is still there. Of course, even the earth trembles now and again, just to remind us that we cannot take anything for granted....”
Of course, he forgot to mention that Richard Gordon is still there. Wonderful thoughts,
Scott R.
San Diego |
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"I found Rich Gordon to be a warm and compassionate person that has a unique ability to help a squabbling couple to focus on resolving their differences, and moving forward in a direction that is positive for them and their children (if involved). That was certainly true for me and my ex-wife.
As a result this complex life event was resolved and put behind us, and we were able to focus on what we had in common - a desire to be involved and loving parents to our children.
We had started down the path of using attorneys, and while it felt good at the time to get jabs at the other person (while the meter was running, mind you), it did little to further either of our needs. After a lot of expense and heartache my ex came to me and said this is so destructive - can we find a better way ? It certainly helped us tremendously.
Rich's ability to listen, guide and get past hurt feelings, and find a common goal and purpose is probably the main reason I can look back at this difficult time in my life with peace and finality."
Bling E.
San Diego
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"Rich helped us navigate the path to separation and divorce with unbiased clear headedness, compasion and determination to make it work equitably for all. He is totally professional, understanding that this painful process doesn't need to even more painful through a bad settlement. For us it was the best way to go. I would highly recommend Rich for anyone entering this process."
Bob S.
Murrieta, CA
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“No quickie weddings at the Elvis Drive-Through Chapel for us...we want to remain married so please move forward with the paperwork to rescind the court order...and let us know what else we need to do or sign.
With our thanks for your wise counsel and good humor throughout this most interesting journey”
Janice and Irv.
La Jolla |
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"Rich is an outstanding person and mediator.
He is honest, fair, understanding, and helpful. He knows when to listen, when to encourage, and most of all, he has an uncanny ability to understand people and situations.
Rich is balanced - careful not to favor either side throughout the process. Yet he is able to bring focus and closure on some very emotionally challenging issues. His sense of humor was instrumental to diffuse some of the inevitable tense moments that occur during the process.
Mediation is the best path for a very painful process, and Rich is an outstanding guide in that journey."
Noam Z.
Solana Beach, CA
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"Thanks again for being so generous and kind, in sharing with me your time and insight last week. I look forward to returning your courtesy at my earliest opportunity."
David,
La Mesa |
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"Rich Gordon helped us make our divorce easy and effortless. He was professional and offered suggestions that we had not thought of. As a former divorce mediator myself, it was interesting to go to someone else to help me with my divorce.
Rich was impartial, offered good advice and did everything in a timely manner. He made what could have been a very painful process one that was as easy as it could be. I would definitely recommend Rich if you want to avoid the high cost of lawyers and still have an agreement that you can live with that is unbiased and in the interest of both parties."
Rhonda S.
Encinitas, CA
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“Well, it's been over eighteen months since I have been on my own, and I want to take this opportunity to thank you for the support you provided me, during a very trying time in my life. I feel so very blessed in all that I have learned and experienced these past several years.
Thank you for taking the time and effort with me which is allowing me to rebuild confidence in life.”
Kim,
Spring Valley |
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"I want to thank you for your kind, gentle and reassuring manner in talking with me this afternoon. I appreciate it more than you know. You have a skill at making people comfortable, and I'm sure that is why you are successful in your practice, as you should be.
I look forward to meeting you in person. Thank you again for your guidance and making me feel so safe."
Pam,
San Diego |
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I just wanted to take a few moments and thank you for the highly expert and efficient legal service that you provided for Virginia and myself. We were very satisfied with not only your legal expertise but personally as well. I wish that the encounter had been under better circumstances. Unfortunately divorce can be part of the life experience.
I expect that Ginny and I will remain good friends.
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Thank you so very much for your guidance, patience, the green lights and, of course, the RED lights during the mediation process. I am so grateful to you for keeping me focused on the "big picture" during those difficult
weeks. Your words of wisdom, philosophy and advice are making it a bit easier for me to start a new me. Your kindness towards me and Brook so greatly appreciated. |
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